<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
  android:layout_width="match_parent"
  android:layout_height="wrap_content"
  android:background="@drawable/item_selector"
  android:gravity="center_vertical"
  android:orientation="vertical" >
  <include
    android:id="@+id/view_header"
    android:layout_width="fill_parent"
    android:layout_height="wrap_content"
    layout="@layout/view_header"
    android:visibility="gone" />
  <LinearLayout
    android:id="@+id/view_item"
    android:layout_width="match_parent"
    android:layout_height="67dip"
    android:gravity="center_vertical"
    android:minHeight="?android:attr/listPreferredItemHeight"
    android:orientation="horizontal" >
    ...

  </LinearLayout>

</LinearLayout>

    @Override
    public View getView(int position, View convertView, ViewGroup parent)     

      ...

      if (position == 0) {
        holder.mHeader.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        holder.mItem.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        initHeaderView(convertView);
      } else {
        holder.mItem.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        holder.mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        initNormalView(convertView);
      }
      return convertView;

 if (position == 0) {
        holder.mHeader.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        holder.mHeader2.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        holder.mItem.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        initHeaderView(convertView);
      } else if(position == 1){
        holder.mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        holder.mHeader2.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        holder.mItem.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        initHeaderView2(convertView);
      }else {
        holder.mItem.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
        holder.mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        holder.mHeader2.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        initNormalView(convertView);
      }

private View mHeader;
mHeader = LayoutInflater.from(this).inflate(R.layout.header, null); //加载footer的布局
mListView.addHeaderView(mHeader);

mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE); //隐藏header

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<LinearLayout
  xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android"
  android:id="@+id/mHeaderparent"
  android:layout_width="match_parent"
  android:layout_height="wrap_content"
  android:background="#FFFFFF"
  android:gravity="center"
  android:orientation="vertical"
  >
  <LinearLayout
    android:id="@+id/mHeader"
    android:layout_width="match_parent"
    android:layout_height="wrap_content"
    android:gravity="center">

    ...

  </LinearLayout>
</LinearLayout>

private View mHeader; //header
private View mHeaderParent; //header的最外面再套一层LinearLayout

mHeaderParent = LayoutInflater.from(getActivity()).inflate(R.layout.headerparent_listview, null);//加载footerParent布局
mHeader = mHeaderParent.findViewById(R.id.header);
listView.addHeaderView(mHeaderParent); //把mHeaderParent放到ListView当中
mHeaderParent.setOnClickListener(MainActivity.this); 

mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE);

ListView listView = xxxx; 
 listView.addHeaderView(mHeaderParent); 
 listView.setAdapter(adapter); 
 mHeader.setVisibility(View.GONE);

final headerCount = 1;
mListView.setOnItemClickListener(new OnItemClickListener() {
  @Override
  public void onItemClick(AdapterView<?> parent, View view,
      int position, long id) {
    Item item = myAdapter.getItem(position - headerCount);
  }
});

mListView.setOnItemClickListener(new OnItemClickListener() {
  @Override
  public void onItemClick(AdapterView<?> parent, View view,
      int position, long id) {
    Item item = parent.getAdapter().getItem(position);
  }
});