List<Map<String, Object>> listItems = new ArrayList<Map<String, Object>>()
myAdapter = new MyAdapter(getApplicationContext(), listItems);
listView.setAdapter(myAdapter);
listView.setOnItemClickListener(new OnItemClickListener() {
 @Override
 public void onItemClick(AdapterView<?> arg0, View arg1, int arg2,
   long arg3) {
   //点击的时候设置选中的编号，在自定义adapter中设置属性selectItem
   myAdapter.setSelectItem(arg2);
   //刷新listView
   myAdapter.notifyDataSetInvalidated();
 }
});

TableLayout info = (TableLayout)convertView.findViewById(R.id.tableLayout1);
if(position == selectItem){//被选中的元素
  if(sign == selectItem){//再次选中的时候会隐藏，并初始化标记位置
     info.setVisibility(View.GONE);
     //没有被选中设置透明色
   convertView.setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("#00000000"));
   sign = -1;
  }else{//选中的时候会展示，并标记此位置
     info.setVisibility(View.VISIBLE);
     //被选中设置背景颜色
   convertView.setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("#B0E2FF"));
   sign = selectItem;
 }
}else {//未被选中的元素
  info.setVisibility(View.GONE);
  convertView.setBackgroundColor(Color.parseColor("#00000000"));
}