< selector xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android">

< item android:state_pressed="true" android:drawable="@drawable/arrow_pressed" />

< item android:drawable="@drawable/arrow_normal" />

< item android:state_checked="true" android:drawable="@drawable/arrow_pressed" />

< /selector>

< ImageView 
android:layout_width="wrap_content"
android:layout_height="@android:dimen/app_icon_size"
android:layout_alignParentRight="true" 
android:scaleType="fitCenter"
android:layout_gravity="center" 
android:src="@drawable/imageselector"
android:clickable="true" 
android:focusable="true" 
android:id="@+id/blacklistImageView"
android:layout_marginRight="10dip" />

blacklistImageView.setPressed(true);
 
blacklistImageView.setChecked(true);